Marriage:
Definition:

1. The social institution under which a man and woman establish their decision to live as husband and wife.

2. the state, condition, or relationship of being married; wedlock: a happy marriage.

3. The legal or religious ceremony that formalizes the decision of a man and woman to live as husband and wife

4. a relationship in which two people have pledged themselves to each other in the manner of a husband and wife for life.

Divorce:
Definition:

1. A judicial declaration dissolving a marriage in whole or in part, esp. one that releases the husband and wife from all matrimonial obligations.

2. Any formal separation of husband and wife according to established custom.

3. Total separation; disunion

4. To break the marriage contract between oneself and (one's spouse), to separate.

Does this sound familiar?

1. Working a lot of overtime
- Your partner claims they need to stay late for a meeting when they are really meeting with their lover.

2. Excessive use of the Internet
- The Internet has become a dating tool for both men and women to meet others. It has become a way for people to explore their sexuality in private.

3. Unaccountable Hours
- Your partner is not able to explain the reason why they have not been where they say they have been. This is the time frame to schedule surveillance.

4. Hiding the phone bill
This is no. 1 way to find who the lover is. If you partner is hiding the bill and won't let you see it, then obviously there is something on there that they don't want you to see. Check the cellphone bill, its lists all calls.

5. Saying "It's your imagination"
- Your partner might fight back with you and say "It's your imagination" when actually it's an indication that you are getting too close to finding out the TRUTH.

6. Getting hang-up phone calls
- The lover wants to speak with your spouse...maybe they had a spat. Calling you is a way to make you aware that there is an affair going on.

7. No longer interested in sex
- As years go by, many partners experience changes in their sexual activity. However, if your spouse completely eliminates sex from your relationship then you should consider that there is a possible affair going on.

8. Not wearing a wedding ring
- If your spouse no longer wears their wedding ring that is an indication that they want everyone to know that they are single.

9. New sexual techniques
- Over the years you and your partner always had sex a particular way and now your partner comes home with new sexual moves that they learned from being with someone else.

10. Saying "I need my space"
- Perhaps your marriage is on the rocks and your partner tells you that he needs space. It could be a way for him to move to the next stage, which is separation.